I encourage Ann to find out if Dan is jealous, or feels that the problem is Ann doing something “sexy.” If Dan is feeling insecure, I suggest he work on those feelings himself.
I tell Ann it’s definitely inappropriate for Dan’s insecurity to dictate what she does with her free time and encourage her to continue doing what she wants.
I think they both have valid points and suggest Ann spend more time with Dan.
Chad should ask his partner if there is any emotional history there; does it trigger a memory? Then they can work on finding less difficult ways to bring up problems when they know why he reacts so strongly.
That’s just how men are. They don’t like to be criticized.
I suggest he take a look at when he’s criticizing his partner: Is it during otherwise stressful times? Bring up issues during a calm, easy time.
You suggest they spend more time with their spouse. Prioritizing the marriage will help!
I suggest they spend time alone and with their partner coming up with things that feel fulfilling and valuable to make their life more like what they imagined.
If their partner isn’t bringing them happiness, then they have to break it off immediately.
I suggest that one partner converts to the other’s religion.
As long as their core values around children, marriage, loyalty, work, etc. are the same, they should focus on those and try to see the similarities rather than the differences.
They should pick one religion to raise their kids in and not talk about it otherwise.
I promise that I’ll be there for whatever they need and support them through the problem, 100%.
I know that we’re a partnership and we’ll approach it together, but I also remember that I have to balance my own needs with theirs. They need a robust support system.
I treat them just how I always did. They’re the same person after all.
I’d suggest they focus less on “sex” and more on intimacy. What are other ways they can feel close? Touch can be a variety of things, and when you’re comfortable and close to your partner, sex will come more naturally.
I recommend seeing a doctor to make sure there aren’t any physical issues.
William should surprise his partner with a clean house, beautiful meal, and stress-free zone to put them in the mood.
